10 out of 30!!!!

SOOOOO, I just got back from the Dentist.  An appointment I've been postponing since I broke my filling back in December.  (Remember this post??)

I had X-Rays, AND...

NO NEW CAVITIES!!!  Never mind that I have two broken fillings, but the fact that there is not any new decay trying to take over my mouth has me feeling on top of the world today. Maybe I will celebrate with Dr. Pepper and Sour Patch Kids, jkjk.

So I have officially completed 10 out of my 30 (with 13 months to go).  Here is my original list.

Here's 8 & 9.
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how to potty train your kid - leah style

Henry is officially potty trained... I know we aren't early on this milestone by any stretch. (He turned 3 at the end of February.)  However, since we've been in undies full time, we have only had one accident, and I have full confidence he will tell me when he needs to go... so very low stress.

So here's what I did.

First, nothing.  For a really long time I did nothing.  Henry showed all the "signs" of being ready around age 2, but I was super lazy.  So I did nothing.

Then around Thanksgiving or Christmas, I thought we should try it.  So being the genius that I am, I embarked on a three-day method... while Matt was out of town??? Obviously that was more work than I was willing to put forth (lazy), plus Henry started intentionally "holding it" (which resulted in way more stress for all), so I gave up.

Sometime after that I switched fully to pull ups, as he was huge, and traditional diaper changes were awkward.

Around spring break, thanks mostly to preschool, he started going pee pee in the potty almost exclusively, unless he was playing. If he was playing, he'd go in his pull up, remove his own pull up, and put on his own new pull up.  At that point, I'm thinking, "Any kid who changes his own diaper can surely go pee pee in the potty."

So basically I just got sick of buying diapers (lazy and cheap), and I bought him really cool Cars, Thomas, and Toy Story undies.  Put those babies on him, he had one accident, and has been going #1 and #2 in the potty for about a week.

Honestly though, I really didn't do anything.  I was just lazy, and it happened!  So moral of the story, be lazy, do nothing, and maybe your kid will figure it out?

whiny mom

This is how all of you felt about me after my last post when I confessed to actually liking running... at least for now.

Anyway... I've had a little bit of an attitude lately.  Over the weekend Matt and I decided to take the kids down to Town Lake for a run.  Somehow, while I have gotten around to liking running by myself, I still feel exuberant amounts of anxiety before I go running with Matt, dontaskmewhyidontknow.

(P.S. People who have lived in Austin long enough should be able to refer to it as Town Lake and not Lady Bird lake, not that I have anything against her.)

So, note to the world, we have too many people living in our awesome city, and all the parking spots were taken.  After about 20 minutes of driving to find a parking spot, I finally just blurted out, "This is ridiculous.  We should just go to P.Terry's and get milkshakes and burgers." (Note, this was not my first complaint, more like my "finale" complaint.)  At which point Matt threw up his hands and said, "Pshh. Let's just go home."  At which point I reminded him that Henry was really looking forward to going running on TL, and he'd have a really fussy three-year-old on his hands if we didn't go.  At which point he said, "Better a fussy three-year-old than a fussy wife."

Bada-bing!

He was right, so I decided to shut my mouth when he parked miles away from our starting point on a residential street.  It ended up being a great run.  Glad I didn't ruin it with my whining.

But on that note, I will say... Henry was sick all last week, and it seems to us like he just never caught up on his sleep or something because he has been whingingalldaylongnonstoplikethiskindof. #likemotherlikeson

I love him.  I am surviving.

running is fun?

Matt loves to run.  I have often found this super annoying in our relationship because well, frankly, I always felt like I "should" run, and to be honest, I have wished I loved it and I have often resented how much he likes it.

Well, I don't resent that he likes it, but I have resented the fact that when it comes to his decision to go running, there is no effort needed, no willpower, and no surge of negative emotions to overcome in order to do it.

So when we do run together, Matt says to me, "We run because it's fun."  (Super annoying when I am huffing and puffing.)  And usually I respond by kicking him.

I can think of several reason why I have negative emotions related to running.

- The first time I remember being required to run in the traditional sense (i.e. not chasing a ball), it was a timed mile in elementary school... not that there's anything wrong with this, but since I wasn't particularly fast, my achiever (A+) ego was probably hurt a little bit.
- My next experiences with running were ALWAYS for punishment and or were dreaded in general.  This was in junior high.  I remember dreading our athletics period all day long if I knew we were going to have to run that day.
- Ditto for high school.  Running was a punishment.  Horses at the end of basketball practice if you miss your free throws, or some sort of track drill for the whole entire girls athletics block for bad behavior on the part of one or two people.

So, it's no wonder I didn't actually enjoy running until I did it voluntarily.  I remember the feeling of achievement and that first runner's high feeling I got when I was 18 (ten years ago) and I ran 6 miles for the first time.  It really was addicting.

But what started as something fun to accomplish ("a want to"), quickly turned to a "should" and a "have to."  Why?  Because I started to associate running with weight management, and that my friends, is just sad.

Over the past three months I have been on a little journey with respect to food and my body image.  I've been determined to free myself from the perils of dieting and a negative body image, mainly because I see what a hindrance it has been for me with respect to actually having a life.

Anyway, part of this journey has included ditching the scale and ditching the self-monitoring of calories, fat grams, carbs, etc, and ditching any "dieting" beliefs, thoughts, practices in general.  The other part of this journey has been changing the way I think about exercise.

Since exercise really isn't effective for weight loss, I have stopped trying to use "weight loss" as a reason to do it.  Funny, I actually enjoy moving my body WAY more now than I did three months ago when exercise was required to feel good about myself.

Which gets me back to the point of this little post, and that is... I have realized what Matt has been talking about all these years.  Running is the reward.  Running is actually very enjoyable, and it makes you feel like a million bucks (not only after you're finished, but during the run).

It's sad that I spent so many years dreading something that is actually enjoyable in and of itself. This is what happens, I suppose, when our activities just become the means to an end.  We forsake the present happiness for the future.  And, personally, I think that's lame.

On another completely unrelated note, Sam is 16 months old today!!  I will post some pics and an update sometime soon. :)

Dear Facebook.

Dear Facebook.

I am battling what they call "baby fever."

You are no help in that department.

Thanks a lot.